Two Tried Solutions for Relieving Separation Anxiety in Pets

Apr 8 2017 - 10:45am

Separation anxiety in dogs and other pets is a real problem, but Crate training and providing stimulation can possibly be working solutions to cure separation anxiety in pets.

Anxious Cat

Have you ever come home to find your house in shambles, your couch destroyed, trash all over the floor, potted plants scattered across the living room floor, your bed pillows and sheets ripped to shreds, giant holes in your walls, doors, yard or garden or a note on your door from the animal control with a warning attached from the animal control officer and thought and thought why is this?
If you have, then you may be a pet owner.

I used these examples because I have experienced each and every scenario and I can attest to the fact it’s not fun, besides being extraordinarily expensive, to find your home and possessions destroyed. And, rather than resort to giving up a pet that is behaving badly and experiencing separation anxiety, it’s much better to find a workable solution.

The truth is dogs, cats, and even birds get bored. The average attention span of an animal is thought to be about 27 seconds. Dogs in particular forget an event within approximately 5 minutes. Cats appear to have a longer attention span and better memory, perhaps 200 times better than a dog. Birds, while having the smallest brain may have the longest memory span and certainly some have the ability to mimic language.

What does an animal experience? Do they have feelings and emotions? What about a soul? I grew up being told animals do not have souls but I have seen first-hand they can feel pain, sadness, depression, grief, fear, and anxiety, particularly when separated from their humans. Pets even suffer separation anxiety with back to school.

Why Dogs and Cats Develop Separation Anxiety

Linda Butts from writes that the most significant reason cats develop separation anxiety is the lack of love and care by others. "If your cat does not receive the same affection from others during your absence, it may develop this separation anxiety. It is very much a natural phenomenon, and you cannot blame your pet for this," she writes. Then she offers some practical solutions to improve separation anxiety in your pets. "You can take your pet with you wherever you go. But at times it is not possible to move around with your pet on all occasions. For that situation, you should arrange for a person in your family who is equally attached to your pet and takes equal care of it just as you do. This will not make the cat feel alone and unattended," writes Butts.

I have tried dozens of things (short of drugs for me and doggie valium) to try to ensure a happy pet and happy human. I have spent hundreds of dollars on toys and bones, crates and kennels, and, even a bark collar out of shear desperation to improve my pet's separation anxiety

The Answer to Pet Separation Anxiety

According to pet expert and TV personality Cesar, you have to first determine whether the anxiety is real or a learned behavior. True separation anxiety causes extreme stress when the animal is separated from his human and may manifest in bad behaviors such as I’ve already mentioned or in physical issues. My parrot used to pick his feathers out when bored or feeling anxious. I have had dogs on the other hand that would pull out his fur if left alone. True anxiety can lead to a sick pet.


Learned or simulated separation anxiety on the other hand may have everything to do with you and how you deal with leaving the house or returning. Dogs pick up on your emotions and look to you for how they are supposed to respond. So, it’s important to begin training early. Don’t make a fuss over the dog when having to leave the house or when you come home. They see the attention as a reward. Rehabilitation begins with letting the dog know what is expected of him.

I suggest two techniques that may help your dog or other pet to cope with separation anxiety.

1. Crate training

My dogs were never put in a crate unless traveling until that is, I rescued a puppy I named Bigfoot. The name is self-explanatory. While she had the biggest feet I’d ever seen on a puppy, I had no idea that within a few months she would turn into a 100 plus pound gorilla toddler, and while I have had dogs before that loved to chew, particularly shoes and underwear, I would never had a dog that would literally chew anything she could find.


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