13 ways parents think they caused autism to kids

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Feb 9 2015 - 5:32pm

When two people find out they are going to have a baby life, as they know it, seemingly stands still. Whether or not your child is going to have autism tends to not cross one's mind. Seems no one thinks about autism until they have to sit in a doctor’s office and be told that a family member, a friend’s child, or their child is autistic. When you look at it from the other side it seems that once a parent has been told their child has autism all they can do is look for reasons why it’s their fault, especially at first.

Autism Cause and Parents

With all the crazy theories about the cause of the autism that can be found, it’s no wonder that many parents are able to come up with a long list of reasons why they think their child’s autism is their fault. Some things people say are beyond preposterous. Let’s take a look.

The things that some parents believe causes autism

There are countless theories as to what some parents believe causes autism. Every parent spends at least some length of time investigating what could’ve caused their child’s autism. Sadly, most of us never receive an answer. Some still search though. Thing is, occasionally their search for the truth stops a little short of finding an acceptable answer. Here’s a compiled list of some of the most off the wall reasons parents think there child’s autism is their fault.

1 The parent’s sexual position during conception caused their child’s autism.
2 The use of technology by the mother during pregnancy caused their child’s autism.
3 The use of plastic products (i.e. forks, spoons) during pregnancy caused their child’s autism.
4 They cooked their child’s food (i.e. carrots, broccoli) when they were younger, instead of feeding it to them raw which caused their autism.
5 The mother using lipstick or hair dye during pregnancy caused their child’s autism.
6 Feeding their children gluten caused their child’s autism.
7 The mother smoked during pregnancy causing the child’s autism.
8 They gave birth to a genius child whose brains short circuited creating their autism.
9 The mother stood near a cooking microwave while pregnant leading to her having a child with autism.
10 The father stood by a cooking microwave prior to conception leading to their child’s autism.
11 Being bad parents caused their child to have autism.
12 Making the babies bottles with tap water caused the baby to become autistic.
13 The mother eating cheese while breastfeeding caused the child to have autism.

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Do you know how many of those reasons are actual causes? None of them. Not one of those things are proven to cause autism. Now, you have to hand it to the gluten allergy though. That one does have the potential of being true. A lot of parents swear that it helps their child immensely. There are also some (like myself) who have tried it with their child(ren) and swear to its futility, absent the child having any intestinal issues. Aside from that none of those are true. I have to say though, even if one or two of those things could be true and relevant to your life and to your child’s autism it still wouldn’t make their diagnosis your fault. Your child is who your child was meant to be and there is nothing more beautiful than that.

The things that scientist and researchers know cause autism
Yes you read that right. The things that scientist and researchers know cause autism. We do know a few things about the origin of this disorder. For one, there are strong genetic links to autism. There were remarkable strides made here recently by researchers who found another copy number variant, or CNV, that is linked to autism. It’s called a CHD8 mutation. I wrote an article about it last year; you can read it here. Right now there are a little less than 200 copy number variants linked to autism currently, and we are finding more all the time. There are also genetic disorders that can have autism linked to them. Here are a few examples.

1 Fragile X Syndrome
2 Rett’s Syndrome
3 Tuberous Sclerosis

Let’s not forget that there are additionally a few toxic exposures that have been proven to have links to autism. For example there’s a study that says that autism rates are higher by up to 60% in children whose mother lived near a place where they sprayed crop pesticides. Furthermore, it is suggested that living near a highway increases the chances of a child being autistic as well.

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my 19 months boy was today diagnosed for Autism! I think I'm behind it
My theory what might cause autism is a huge amount of consumption of high fructose corn syrup
My neighbour's 4year old was diagnosed as being autistic and my son now displays a lot of the classic symptoms (neurologist appointment scheduled). I'm convinced it's the tap water.
I find this very interesting... my neighbour's son also had autism, and was only about a year and a half older than my son; who was diagnosed in April this year. The two boys only met once, round about the time my son was 18 months old! I also have my suspicions about the quality of tap water.
Help! I have a pre-teen dealing with high-functioning autism and an addiction to video games. If we try to monitor, limit or remove the games or cords from his room, he become violent or destructive towards me, his sister, his father, or our possessions. I had to call an ambulance once to take him to the hospital but all they did was give him a warning and a evaluation that denied asperges syndrome but concurred with high-functioning autism, and told him if he doesn't learn to control his temper, the next time will be in-patient services. Anyone have any ideas how to help my child and keep us from getting hurt in the process?
We go through this with our son and I have made many friends over the years via support groups that have had to go through this with their children. The medical professionals can be frustrating at times. My advice is to fb autism. Pick one of the amazing support groups on there and join. It may seem so small but if you find the group for you it will make all the difference. We parents have to stick together and these groups are our way of doing so. You can ask questions, vent these same frustrations and concerns on there and receive advice from parents that are going through this or have went through this before. Many of these grouos are international groups, giving you even larger of a platform to receive suggestions from. Support groups are amazing tools for finding answers when we are simply at our wits end. My support groups have been so helpful over the years. I even use to help run one that had near 30,000 members worldwide. The things that were talked about were real problems-like yours-and the responses were real responses, not the typical "discipline them more" type responses. I wish you luck. I also wrote a book about meltdowns, it's called melting down meltdowns: when a tantrum isn't a tantrum. You can find it on amazon.Com and from Barnesandnoble.com just search brooke price. Again, I wish you luck.
Help! My child has autism and is violent! I am at my wit's end trying to help him and protecting my family from his destructive behavior.
I was undiagnosed ADHD and mild autism for most of my life, until after I found out my son was autistic and daughter had ADHD. I wish that someone had twigged that I wasn't just a crappy person but had real issues before I gave in and had kids.

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