10 Tips to Calm Down an Autistic Child in Meltdown
Possibly the most difficult and exhausting aspect of being a mother of an autistic child is dealing with meltdowns. Sometimes every day. Definitely at the wrong moments. Chances are, these meltdowns have kept you at home during family holidays, away from the merriment. Walking in a mall, even when not very busy, could end up in an hour-long screaming fit with a sprinkle of aggression to make your day complete. Tips that could help are very much appreciated.
Autistic children are special, different, but never less than others. They are perfect in the eyes of their parents, with all the problems that they drag in the door with them. It matters not if the child is high-functioning Asperger's or low-functioning ASD with Rhett's Syndrome. The strange things that they do can be quite amusing, including when they claim to hear colours. None would ever replace their children, finding methods of preventing the disorder, such as through embryonic selection, utterly despicable.
Christmas is coming on a train full of other holidays as well, including Hanukkah, Pancha Ganapati, Kwanzaa and Yule. Between appropriate gifts and pictures at the mall, parents can be seeing either full blown meltdowns or utter excitement in the eyes of their children. If it is the latter, there are ways to deal with it.
A meltdown is not the same as a tantrum for the following reasons: